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Tag Archives: Family
Den Siste Hilsen (The Final Farewell)
It’s strange, preparing to say goodbye to someone who died nearly two years earlier. You’ve already cried. You’ve grieved. You’ve come to terms with your loss. Yet there we were, on June 28, 2022, scrunched into row 39 on a … Continue reading
Reflections in Recovery: 20 Years Sober
Today, June 21, 2022, I celebrate 20 years of sobriety. I’m grateful. And deeply reflective. In recovery, we’re not supposed to “regret the past, nor shut the door on it.” It seems I had done a bit of both. I … Continue reading
My 3-pound universe: Irony, denial and addiction
In my early 20s, I went out with a nice guy. Over dinner, he shared that he was on Zoloft for depression. I recoiled. For starters, that’s not first-date material. Secondly, I was rife with judgment. I didn’t want to … Continue reading
Posted in Addiction, Uncategorized
Tagged 12-steps, Addiction, Alcoholism, Family, Healthy Living, mental illness, substance use disorder
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Mom’s 86th Birthday: Celebrations in Quarantine
The COVID-19 pandemic is hurting us all. To date, more than 14,000 thousand people have lost their lives in the United States alone, leaving families immersed in grief and despair. Thankfully, many others have won their battles, or escaped affliction … Continue reading
Generous even in death, Jim Pickett gave the gift of life to five strangers
In loving memory of James Michael Pickett, November 7, 1964 – July 1, 2018 Jim Pickett was passionate, kind, entrepreneurial, loyal, and spirited. He enjoyed good friends, great food, and lively conversation. But more than anything, he loved my sister, … Continue reading
Thank you, Officer, for my speeding ticket
Reminders to slow down this Fourth of July and all year long It had been a fabulous weekend! Our daughters were in Atlanta helping a friend celebrate her 13th birthday. My sister, Heidi Hovland, made an impromptu trip to Huntsville, … Continue reading
Posted in Ala., Holiday weekend, Uncategorized
Tagged 4th of July, ADHD, Alabama, Family, Holiday, Huntsville, Nashville, Safety, speeding, Tennessee, Tennessee Highway Patrol
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Father’s Day 2016
Belated thanks and apologies to my late father, Gjert Andreas Hovland Dear Dad, This is my 14th Father’s Day without you. I remember when you first passed away on October 9, 2002. The hurt was not only emotional, but physical. … Continue reading
Posted in Family, Uncategorized
Tagged Alcoholism, College of St. Benedict, CSB/SJU, Family, Father's Day, Grief
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Hello. It’s me.
Hello from the other side. It’s been a long time since my last blog. Almost a year. A lot can happen in a year, including the release of Adele’s “25,” which surpassed 8 million sales by February. We are among the … Continue reading
Horse Crazy: The adventures of polocrosse
My oldest daughter is horse crazy. Serina, 9, rides at River Pine Farm every week, learning how to properly tack, untack, walk, canter and trot. But she’s also a horse “reader,” mentally consuming every horse-related book, fiction or nonfiction, she … Continue reading
Posted in Horses, Polocrosse
Tagged equine, Family, horseback riding, horses, sports
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Happy anniversary: Celebrating a perfectly imperfect marriage
On May 4, 1996, David and I exchanged vows at Mindekirken, the Norwegian Lutheran Memorial Church in Minneapolis. Before my late father walked me down the aisle, I peeked in at the pews full of friends, family and colleagues. For the first time … Continue reading